Who talked to you about sex?

At a very young age, I knew what sex was. Being around a lot of my cousins who were older it came up in jokes (remember "Jonny fuck her faster?"). When we would play Barbies the boys would come and take our boy barbies and make them perform the deed on our makeshift barbie bed. It was all over TV, and the music videos we would watch. Today it is even worse. Every cartoon and teeny bopper show has some sort of sexual innuendo thrown in. If you think your innocent little baby doesn't know what sex is...think again.

I specifically remember a conversation coming up about sex when I was a little girl between me and my mother. She told me..."Eh..sex isn't that great!" That was as far as my sex education went. The older my daughters get, I know they will become more and more curious about it. I have always been a very open person especially about the topic of sex, so I know that when the time comes I will tell her everything she needs to know. I think its important to also not make your child feel bad about the idea of sex or making themselves feel good for that matter. We are hard wired from the time we are born to want to experience those sensations. I believe that it is very important though to make sure they understand the importance of safety.

You would be surprised to know how little women KNOW about their bodies. We've been made to feel ashamed or dirty at the idea of "enjoying" ourselves. I say "Hey, you've only got one sex life..make it a good one." How can you REALLY enjoy sex with someone when you don't even know what it is you like? When a women explores herself she can then show her partner what makes her feel good, which in turn will make them feel good just knowing that you are being satisfied.

Sex is not the enemy, it's a beautiful thing and should be enjoyed to the fullest.

Introducing our newest toy Lelo Soraya

All us Passion Party Girls are super excited about the newest toy to be added to our catalog, Lelo Soraya! This is the queen of all toys currently on the market and by reading the reviews on it, you'll see why.

At $199 this toy is a definite splurge and worth every single penny. This high quality toy is made to last and made to help you achieve mind blowing orgasms faster and easier. Any sex toy enthusiast is sure to choose this toy every time over any other. Read the reviews below to find out why.


From a Sex Blogger:
After having such a truly amazing experience with the Soraya I can’t see any reason to give it less than 5 full stars and well worth its price, certainly not a purchase I’d ever regret and it’s now my number 1 toy, pushing the we vibe 2 back to #2.

Body Confidential Review:
I like the fact that once you’ve found your favourite setting you can slow it down or speed it up accordingly... and let me tell you, the combinations are damn good. One particular mode had me in hysterics and left me wondering how something so sylph-like could summon up such a thunderous vibration.

Partner Review:
Over a few years (30-odd) we have tried out several bedroom toys but nothing has compared to the Soraya. We have had a great deal of fun since it was delivered. Pity we had not discovered it before.

It's the best orgasm I have ever seen my wife have. It may appear expensive on screen but believe me it's the best-made product providing the most fun you can buy for this money.

Specs:
USER TIME: up to 4 hours... STANDBY: up to 90 days

MATERIAL: Body-safe FDA-Approved silicone/ light metallic-coated ABS core

SIE: 9″ long with a maximum girth of 4″on the shaft. The clitoral arm is 2.5″ long and is situated 5″ below the tip of the shaft.

CONTROLS: 3 intuitively places, easy to use buttons that control the level of intensity as well as switching the toy on and off, with the middle button cycling through the vibration patterns. Has a travel lock feature

Lube Compatibility: Water Based Lube recommended.
Fully-waterproof with 8 adjustable stimulation modes
Fully-rechargeable for up to 4 hours of pleasure
Near-silent vibrations for the utmost discretion
Dual motors situated within the shaft and clit tickling tip


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Tarot and Me

I finally decided to pick up my tarot deck and start using them again. My very first reading was for my mother and she wanted to know where her life was headed, would she be working soon? The overall story the cards told me was that her possibilities were endless but she needs to put herself out there and make an effort. (something I've told her for years)

I love Tarot for its ability to give you insight and a deeper look into yourself and/or a situation. I read myself in regards to my Passion Parties business wondering how well it would go next year. They told me that I needed to get organized and that I had fresh and new ideas and not to let anyone discourage them. That I have the ability to go far in my business as long as I put in the effort. That was exactly what I "needed" to hear. I have been completely unorganized in everything and especially that...I find it hard to focus. Taking the advice that was given to me should lead me where I want to go.

When I read for someone Its important that I really focus on them..see their face and try to feel their "energy" if you will... It's still a little scary because I don't know if the cards will really say anything at all or even make sense or relate to them even...its easy to be skeptical and most people are..myself included. But I know that within me is this ability to "see" things and "feel" things that are not on the surface. I tend to be very sensitive to people and the energy that they give off. I can tell when someone is annoyed or angry in some way without even looking at their face..I can sense it in the air you could say. So I felt that learning the Tarot might help me tap into that even more and possibly be able to help others as well as myself find the right path and learn something along the way.

If I read for you just know that what is said is meant to guide you to your hopes and desires as well as telling you what needs to be.. they are not neccesarily "matter of fact", things constantly change based on the decisions we make. The Tarot is meant to point you in the right direction...follow what the story is telling you and you will find peace and happiness.

It's time...

Here I am listening to Cosmic Love by Florence + the Machine... There is a dancer who lives inside my mind. She is wildly passionate yet graceful. This song does something to her. She is aching to be set free..to be able to flow through my body and break free. I am ready to open myself to her.

I am ready to push my limits, to fight this body that has held me back for too many years. I am tired of being uncomfortable in my own skin, tired of not wanting anyone to look at me for fear that they may not like what they see. I want to dance freely. I want to be me.

Attending a Passion Party Vs Going to a Sex Shop

We have all at least once in our lives considered going into a sex shop, some of you may have and some of you may still be too scared. You cant help but feel a little dirty or uncomfortable walking into a sex shop for the first time. A lot of people are perfectly comfortable with it but for those of you who are not, a Passion Party is a great way to go. You will have an opportunity to learn about a wide variety of items from Bath salts infused with a natural scent meant to attract and entice the senses to toys that will give you and your partner an unforgettable sexual experience.

Generally your Passion Parties Consultant will be knowledgeable enough to help answer any questions you may have about your body as well as your partners. They will give you all sorts of great tips to help keep the Passion alive in your relationship. It's nice to have someone to talk to comfortably about all our sex questions. When you get together with your girlfriends it becomes a fun lighthearted experience, its hard to be embarrassed because most likely one of your friends will have no problem cracking jokes and telling you how awesome certain products are. Even better your order will be taken privately where you can be free to purchase whatever you like and also ask questions and discuss sex questions or concerns with your consultant.

It isn't all about toys either. There are a wide variety of products to enhance your lovemaking and you never know what must have item you will find until you attend one of these parties. You can walk into a sex shop and be immediately overwhelmed, not even completely sure what your looking for. At a passion party you'll learn about all different types of products chances are your going to find the right one for you.

The Catcher In The Goddamn Rye And All

You know...I really love to read. Once I get started It's hard to get me to stop...heaven forbid I start reading a series cause then I will have to read the next book right away because I'm seriously impatient and MUST know what happens next! Well....I started reading catcher in the rye, Ive always been curious about it especially after watching that movie with Jared Leto where he plays the guy who killed john Lennon. (allegedly that's the book that set this guy off on his weirdo obsession) anyways...I started reading it and I just CANT GO ON....its awful! Is this really a book they make highschoolers read!? The grammar for one is sooo annoying and he says "and all" like every other sentence....and everything is goddamn this and goddamn that...ack!!! This might be the worst book I'll ever read. I guess I should finish it before I pass complete judgement...but seriously...its awful :(